This is more of a guilty confession, I am a 18 years old, and I am with my partner (20) I lied about my age to him when we first met, when I was 16’ish he was around 18, when we first met I lied about my age (keep in mind its less than a year, plus where I am legal age is 16 so nothing suspicious was going on) we have been dating for nearly 3 years and we are thinking about moving in together, since we have been together for so long I can’t bring myself to tell him I lied? I mean when we first met I only saw him as a friend and I didn’t expect anything of it, and now that well be moving in together, this little white lie has been haunting me, I hate it, I feel so awful daily, I can’t stop thinking about how, ‘what if he fins out and leaves’ ‘what if he leaves’ so on so forth, now I don’t know how to bring this up, and I am prepared to sit on this guilt until I die, im taking this to the grave with me, I just, I don’t know what to do and ive started self harming again aswell, its getting serious, its mostly on my chest, all over this one tiny flaw, anyway, thanks again,