Ariel Rosewater:
The affair I had for a year and a half ended. We were both married. His wife became suspicious, and confronted me. I confessed to my husband. We’re working on our marriage and doing well now.
The ex affair partner has reached out to me several times since it ended, but I ignored him. I haven’t ever replied. The last contact from him was a couple months ago, and he apologized. I never replied.
I was glad this affair was over. He told me awful things that he keeps hidden from his wife, and it was terrible. He said he’d been in a s***** relationship with his wife’s 20ish daughter. That disgusted me. He always tried to get me to do violent s***** things with him. He also wanted me to be intimate with other people with him. He truly sickened me.
I felt awful about my adultery, and asked for forgiveness. This man is a self proclaimed sociopath. He had some bad issues, and always said that me and him couldnt go separate ways.
Do you think he will try to harm me? What should I do? I dont talk to him, and avoid going anywhere that he may visit. He has a very good reputation as a pillar of the community. Everyone thinks highly of him, but he’s a terrible person who manipulates everyone around him. Is ignoring him the right thing to do, or should I tell him to stop?
