as a single woman I have met a few weird couples older mostly who want to play mind games. its a bit like “come into my parlor” said the spider to the fly, and these married women create a web of deceit around them to get a young guy on the side of their marriage and play single women into being raped by a married man- usually their cast offs. I don’t understand it but these people use victims – a third person and then usually go back to their marriage or have a succession of marriages with younger men. that is why I want little to do with a lot of people now. I still think that the man who raped me his wife was a real GAMER like that. I know their TYPE! they seem to be everywhere now. its like they want to be you! but why? they want to be single and free again after the empty nest syndrome or they want a bit on the side, they want to fly their wings or like a dog that has just been set loose from a chain after a marriage break up and all they are out to do is abuse younger women. I know their TYPE!!!! other people are their game!