Dear Jasmine,

I understand your feelings. The grass isn’t greener on this side. You sound like a very nice girl. Very much in love with her husband. You have a good life. Please don’t betray your husband. Its a road you won’t find so much fun on.

You were very young when you got married. A baby in many ways. I understand how it feels to want to escape and “go back” and live a life you were denied.

I hope you find this note and song to help. Its like its written for you.

“Its the Stuff that dreams are made of” by Carly Simon. Its an old song….You have a good life. And your prince is your husband. Look at him with new eyes. And look at yourself also with new eyes. You are living a dream. He loves you. He would not work so hard to provide a good life for you and your children if he didn’t.

I hope and pray you find a way to talk to your husband. Let him know how you feel. Maybe a little roll play for you two are in order. But please, don’t betray your vows. its not worth it.

If you wish to go to Spain? …don’t leave your husband behind. If you want to run with the bulls? ….RUN hand in hand..with your man. don’t let go. And if you can afford it? take a cruise. Leave the kids with your mom. You might just find a new fresh beginning.

I’m truly hoping you find a renewal in your spirit and your heart.

May God be with you.