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This is a rant. I need to get this off my chest but I am so utterly disgusted and at a lost with one of my best friends. I don’t know what to do and if anyone would give feedback that would be great. So basically I have this friend and he is constantly in relationships. It is as if he can’t live without being with someone. He wasn’t always like this as a matter of fact, He was actually a pretty cool person. He was super chill and a fun guy to be around. Then he lost weight and got an ego. He started going on dating sites and ever since then he lost any personality he ever had. And now all he does is talk about the people he’s been with. He talks about his hooks up and it’s just embarrassing at this point. And I’m not some prude, I have my fair share of hoe stories too but if that’s all we are going to talk about when we meet up, then I rather not hang with him….. Then his so called ‘relationships.’ It literally is so embarrassing. He brings someone different every time when we meet up and we go through the struggle of meeting someone new, gettin pretty close to them, and just stop talking to them because he broke up with them. Like some of the people he’s been in relationships I actually really liked. He always has the audacity to blame the falling out on the other person. When in reality there’s a common denominator in these failed relationships is him. Like I’m truly at a loss here because whenever we give advice he never seems to listen. I actually confronted him about this and he thought I was attacking him. That I was a ‘Hater’ That I’m stupid and don’t understand what it’s like. But he thinks this way because I’m not telling him what he wants to hear. He thinks that because I don’t think his ex was the problem and that he was the problem. He thinks I’m a hater because I don’t think he should be going out meeting other people while he just got out of a relationship. I’m at a loss, I tried cutting him off so he’d understand that this was serious but it didn’t get through. I’m truly at a loss at this point. I care about my friend and I wish he would see that…

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