In October I posted here about finding a box of condoms in my wifes suitcase. During her month long business trip and after she got back I didn’t bring it up, I was too afraid of what I might hear. But on Saturday my wife sat me down and said there was a visible tension between us and we have to clear the air. She admitted she was having s** with someone, but she won’t tell me his name because he’s married and has children. The condoms ran out and they had unprotected s** a couple of times but she took a pregnancy test and she’s clear. She promised it was wasn’t romantic but he did sleep over a few times, they have stopped communicating with each other. I don’t know how where to go from here. Did she plan this with him before she got there? How can I possibly trust her when she says they’re not speaking anymore?