Dude that’s why you stay far away from women on the rebound or women in love with other people.

Seriously. For me that’s like an unconscious thing, because I want love bin a relationship not just s**. When I look at a woman I like, we are not togethet say I’m really starting to like her, and I can tell she likes me, Im confident we’re cool, if she is with a guy then, I’m looking at it like even if they broke up today, she STILL needs to be 6 months clean from this before I even think about it. I sure as hall am not going to end up that f****** sucker to a girl I like. Any other guy can feel free to step on up, I won’t be hurt or jealous, I know it’s doomed and if it isn’t I’ll still hit her in 6 months. Even if I like her, I’ll step back and give her a biy of time depending on how long she was with the guy. I am not touching her with a 10 ft pole at that moment. I’ll let her start to miss me too. That is if I like her. But yeah, I have felt the b******* from people who’s women can’t seem to forget me. And I understand that, I always knew that would happen. I get so irritatd by it though. I make it real clear I am not interested in going back there. So it seems anyway, when these people instead of looking at me, made the stupid mistake of attaching themselves to a woman hung up on someone (me) in one way or another.

But I believe it s**** being with someone like that. I cant see myself sticking that out for long, I would shut down pretty quick and then I’d quit in a relationship like that. She obviously can’t get past certain things/issues if it still hurts her. It might not even be her directly, maybe other people can’t seem to let it go, keeping wounds open? That happens too. Scab pickers. People can’t just let shot die and just look at themselves. Inward. It’s got nothing o do with me. Roles reversed, I know what I’m up against (impossible) and I leave. I don’t pick a fight with people from her past. I don’t look or even really want to know.