my dad has always told me my grandpa was just an awkward guy. he down talked the times he has hugged me and grabbed my lower waist, tried to kiss me on the mouth, and has made comments abt me in a tank top and his “man instincts” being alerted. my dad told me it was fine. I found out my grandpa has made many more comments about my breasts being “alluring” or how “i’m growing to be a fine young woman, if ya know what I mean.” and found out he’s had 4 affairs with women he’s mentored for his church. I also found out he’s touched my cousins inappropriatly as well, he’s done it to all the girls over the age of 13. my aunts constantly tell us to cover up when he’s around, these are things I’ve payed no mind to bc my dad said it was normal. I don’t know if this is actually anything, idk if my grandpa is a perv or just awkward and idk what to do anymore. we were at the beach and he took these photos of me and my aunts and cousins in bikinis and I just don’t know what to do . im scared of him. he abused my uncles when they were young, to the point where they bled into their cereal bowls, something my dad has openly talked about. I don’t know what to do. I don’t have evidence and idk if im crazy. idk what to do
