I’m a married but have been having a strange relationship with a married guy at work. We haven’t touched each other physically but have been unfaithful in almost every other way. We exchange n*** selfies, he tells me to take my bra or p****** off at work, I tell him to j******* in the mens room, stuff like that. When we’re home we tell each other to do things with our spouses.

Its fun and exciting but we never crossed the physical line. Is it still cheating?