Is it possible to get over loving someone? This is a genuine question. I’m going through my first break up, and we’re still friends and all. It was kind of mutual because i realized my partner just… wasn’t feeling it? And i opened up about it and we talked and we decided that we’d be better off as friends. But i’m still in love. Is this a feeling that can go away with time, or is it usually there forever? Something that i need to learn to ignore? Geez i figured 21 was old enough to finally understand relationships…