(fyi i’m a girl, and just want to admit this to get it off my mind) i have this friend at school and we’re really close in all aspects. i’m openly queer and i’m thinking i might be bisexual but i’m unsure still. i often go to this lgbt club with my other queer friends and drag her along even though she’s straight.
but recently people have started assuming we’re gay together. even a teacher i know likely thinks we are. this has kinda extended really far though.
we thought this one guy liked her so we got a mutual to ask him if he did. he not only said he didn’t but legitimately thought she was gay.
multiple times we’ve been mistaken for holding hands or even kissing somehow, it’s still playful but i know a few of the mishaps are genuine thoughts.
i don’t like her since we’re so close i guess i know she’d never line up with me romantically. besides, she’s straight. but i get the vibe some people are ‘rooting’ for us, the kind that do go “hah i thought you two were holding hands”.
my friends chocked it up to me “dragging her to gay club” and the fact she did have a girl’s name with hearts in some social media bios (this is ironic and sounds super dumb but she’s known to joke). idk it’s just weird
it’s nothing about being homophobic thought. it’s just starting to get on my mind more than it should be and i just want to put this out there. i’m not asking for advice, i guess i’m just asking for someone to listen heh