A fear:
I met this guy whom I like and I think he likes me but he goes to the gym often and he is so fit and I am so flabby…I am like ten/fifteen pounds overweight and dressed I look ok,but naked…my God it’s just a wobbly mess. My tummy slightly folds down low and then it’s two rolls, with my b**** being the third one -_-
Everything is wobbly/jiggly/soft and not tight at all plus my b**** are kind of small (80B/75C) and far apart from each other so much so that my chest is almost completely flat when I lay down and I can put my whole palm between them, the b**** are all on the sides…I also have big thigs but I am not even pear-shaped, I am apple shaped, my pelvis bones are too high set so my b*** looks weird too…I think I look disgusting naked.
We seem to like each other but what am I going to do when it comes to s**? I am terrified…apart from being really fit he seems like a good guy too, but why the hell would he want to keep seeing me after he sees me naked?
Is it even possible? I am certain he would be disappointed. Should I s*** it up and get disappointed or avoid the humiliation?
Guys, if you really liked a girl and enjoyed her company but eventually found out that you don’t like her body at all and that it puts you off, how would you handle it? How would you step back? Would you tell her the truth? Would you just ghost her? Would you find another excuse why you don’t want anything more? What should I expect