My boyfriend has told me that I seem to have a habit of thinking about those around me as relationships rather than individuals.
I got upset and denied it because I didn’t think it was true! I do love people and care for them.
Lately though, I realized that he’s right. I forget that these are people around me. I also forget that I’m a person. My mind simplified those things in autopilot and sometimes that leads to my reactions being totally inappropriate for what’s actually happening. It’s task by task and you follow a formula.
If I am conscious about it, I can correct it but knowing that I do this…I feel guilty.