I think new lovers should enjoy some dry h****** before getting into fully. and try b*** jobs and other ways to enjoy s** with penetration. and work on it bit by bit. I think it makes s** and romance more hot and s***. its kind of like “I am getting hungrier and hungrier, and will it be tonight or tomorrow night or not?” s** is nothing without petting and building desire with courting in romance. o***** is great in many ways without full on s**. I personally would love to do a b*** job with a guy and sure I love penetration now. but when I was a virgin it was scary. if a man is mature and gentle in that area it does work out. s** is nothing without love.