I have been in a relationship for last 6 Years! I am 22! I was just sweet 16″. I went out for my graduation in My middle 17. Everything was perfect! Until My 18th bday. My bf on his birthday promised me to marry him and said to get physical. I was 18, convinced and made out with him. Evrything was perfect again. Love was in the air. I completed my graduation. Now I work in a bank as PO. Few days back, i got to know about his affair with another girl. He was with him from past eight months. I was out because of my job. He made out with that girl. The girl called me up and said everything. When I had word with him, he said he was guilty, cried and said he was carried away in the flow. That girl has relations with three other guys before meeting my bf. And now she is blackmailing him . She wasnt virgin but now she claims that she wants to marry my bf. On the other hand, evryone at my house and his is preparing for marriage. I just dont know. N nmbr of times I explained the girl but isnt understanding. I am totally pissed off. My bf loves me more than anything thts why i forgave his first and last mistake. They made out just once and that too bcz of the girl. dont know how to tackle this.