Why is the default for self acceptance measured in s********? It seems weird to accept your own ethnicity, religion, body weight, gender etc.and turn around and expect everybody to treat you as the ultimate s***** being. If you truly love yourself the way you are, then why are you looking for validation from a second party in the form of if they agree to take you to bed or not.

Like for example, for me, I don think thick or curvy is a thing. It is just called fat. I don’t find fat people attractive. Yet if I am to say that I am seen as fatphobic. No. I am not afraid of fat people. I just don’t find fat people (i.e who decide to sit ontop of me on a small bench and suffocate me or who have to turn their body sideways to fit in McDonald’s) attractive. I have no issue being friends with fat people or treating them as any regular person.
However I admit if a fat person takes offense to my statement and decides to sit on me.. In that case yes, I would be fatphobic. I would be terrified.