My husband is in his early thirties and has trouble getting and maintaining an erection. I have tried all kinds of foreplay to get him hard including sucking his p**** for long periods if time just to have him go soft when we are having s**. He won’t get any medication because he is embarrassed. Out s** life has turned into me using a d**** while he watches playing with his limp d***. He will still c** without getting hard but his d*** is not useful to me if it’s not hard.