My husband of five years wants a child. I do to, but he wants one that is OURS and I don’t think my body is able to do that. On both sides of my family the women have had trouble giving birth (3 gens dads side and 5-6 gens mums side) and I just don’t think I could handle having miscarriage after miscarriage as my mum had five to get me while my granny’s had two and four. And to top it off running through his side of the family is a long line of alseimers in most of them around fifty and mum had to be put under a special drug to go into labour. Please help, should I give birth even if it could take a few tries or adopt?