My husband cheated, I forgave, and

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My husband cheated, I forgave, and he cheated again. Now, six months later I managed to find forgiveness again, but I’m scared. I’m so afraid he’s going to have a relapse and cheat again. It would crush me and make me feel like a total dipshit if he ever did it again. Why do women have to be such whores and why do men have to fall for it? I’m so afraid to believe in the happy ending. I’m still lost.

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  • Why are you the whore if he’s the one cheating?

    T.A.

    Anonymous January 17, 2012 10:40 am Reply
  • Men are alike when it comes to easy women.
    But if he sleeps other women from time to time does not necessarily mean he does not love you. He just needs to change some sensations maybe. It’s up to you to decide if it’s more than that…anyway, since you found out he’s not good or does not care enough to hide…

    Anonymous January 17, 2012 8:42 pm Reply
  • I’m sorry, #2. We are not apes in a jungle that go through mating seasons.

    T.A.

    Anonymous January 17, 2012 9:13 pm Reply
  • hahaha #3, i totally agree, maybe we should all go fuck here and there to change some sensations! wtf bro! they are married!

    Anonymous January 21, 2012 2:48 pm Reply
  • #3, you are obviously a cheater and not married. When you’ve given all of yourself to one person and promised before God to honor that one person above all others… Its soul crushing to find out that the one man I ever trusted betrayed me in the most vile of ways. We never went into marriage saying that sleeping with other people was ok, because to me it isn’t. Marriage is a sacred institituion ordered by God, something many people forget. It amuses me, because marriage comes from God. It is a covenant and a sacrament. And I can guarantee if I’d fucked another man it wouldn’t be ok. I’m not the whore here, my husband and that disgusting piece of filth are. I’ve managed to forgive him, but it doesn’t mean it doesn’t scare the shit out of me. If you want to cheat, have enough respect for your partner to end it first. I sometimes wish he had done that instead of cheating. So #3, fall truly and deeply in love with someone and trust them implicitly. When they betray that I dare you to be so flippant!

    Anonymous January 23, 2012 8:40 am Reply
  • Sorry #3, meant to write #2.

    Anonymous January 23, 2012 8:41 am Reply

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