I dont think cheating is a bad thing when done in the right context. Everyone has needs and while it’s nice to want all our needs fulfilled by one person, sometimes that’s not the case. I love my husband he is a good man. I need more. He gives me the 80% but the 20% I’m missing encompasses passion, lust, and a hunger to be wanted… I won’t leave my husband but I won’t live without passion.
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Hahaha! TO each their own but personaly I have never been happier in my entire life than I am right now without commitment at this time. I have never in 44 years been better in about every way you can think of.
People like you are poor schmucks to me. Everything about you right now is reliant on other people for your happiness. You and especially your husband are losers like most people out there.
Enjoy the headaches, people. Good luck to you 🙂
Wow all the name calling and bashing really shows what a happy 44 year old you are. Glad that won’t be me. Thanks for luck but I nor my husband need it. Being open with each other is better than luck any day. But I appreciate it.
Look lady, if you told me that in real life, I would respond the same way I did here without being angry and no stress
You know who else has a problproblem not thinking with their genitals?
Retarded people and primates. To me you really are a stupid monkey amd your inferior. That’s how I’d treat you in life. Like a retard or a primate.
I totally understand what this lady is saying im the exact same and I don’t appreciate you calling her or anyone who does that a retarded monkey if you called me a retarded monkey to my face I’d act like one by throwing shit at you sweet heart cause that’s what’s coming out your mouth you
Hey, it’s the truth. Primates and retarded people. I don’t really care, I don’t have to deal these kinds of issue, but unfortunately I call it like I see it. Primates, hormonally charged children, fucking shit loving faggots, and retarded people
As far as being offensive, people offend me constantly. I gave up caring a d I don’t really care how offended people get from my honest views. Just think about my opinion. It’s real and true
and might I add, it doesn’t improve my view of either of your serious lack of attention when YOU CHOSE to get married and remain married, matrimony, tied together with a man who doesn’t bring out your inner primate. Why stay married? Why not get away and be free? Are either of you working? Are you dependant on these men?
The situations your both in make you both idiots in my opinion. Your worthless. I would shit all over your heads if I ever encountered you. Mind you I have strong opinions, but yeah. Your both idiots IMO, and so are your husbands. Everybody’s playing house eh? Sounds like a really shitty life to me.
Actually she’s obviously a fucking monkey too. No will power.
She and him are both weak losers. That was confirmed the second they said “I do”. I honestly believe that and it goes for anybody in a “committed relationship” too. It’s the ultimate in pathetic.
Stupid weak willed Monkeys.
If he knows what you’re doing and is ok with that, I don’t see why not. But a word of warning. If you get yourself involved with someone else, let that person know ahead that leaving your husband is not an option. Apart from that, if everyone is fine with the situation, then I don’t see a problem. Go and be happy!
Oh my gosh. That’s a lot of hatred from someone who claims to be happy. I could never speak about a human in such a senseless sickening demeaning manner. I mean everyone lives their life in their own way. Hopefully doing what’s best for them and their happiness. And if this person is happy in an open marriage so be it. But to the person calling names, I actually feel bad for you. I would suggest you seek help but obviously you are to far gone. I hope you are able to open your mind and heart one day because living with such hate is a horrible way to live.
If your husband knows about it and doesn’t mind good for you. If he doesn’t i despise you. And i’m not sorry. If he doesn’t fullfill your fantasies and it’s soooo bad that you have to cheat on him, leave him. It’s better for both of you. And especially for him because no one deserves a cheater. I have had a guy who cheated on me and it fucked up every relationship i have had since because it’s so hard to trust someone now. But you do you i guess…
My husband and I go to marriage counseling once a week to help us communicate better. The love is there, the want is there and we have the will to put in the effort to do everything we can to have a happy marriage. We go to sex therapy also once a week. Before I made the decision to step out side of my marriage, I had multiple conversations with my partner and our therapist. Having an open marriage is a thing people. Whether it is something you agree with or not. As long as my husband and I go to sleep and wake up still madly in love we are good. I will say therapy has helped open both of our minds up to other possibilities and helped us begin to reconnect. I still dont understand really where the physical declined. But he understands that it is not a want for me but a need. I was literally begging him to not only be intimate with me but to even touch me. He wasn’t communicating with me. He finally opened up to me in counseling and I am so grateful. He admits the idea of his woman with another man is not how he envisioned his marriage and I admit I never saw this for myself. But once he opened up and agreed to see a therapist, things are on the road to a me and him marriage. I asked for his permission and he gave it. I am not involved with anyone. My husband closed himself off in every way and made me feel rejected in the worst way. I was not sneaking around lying behind his back. I was not causing harm. I expressed my needs and he said maybe you should find someone who can give u what I can’t. And I said I dont want to lose my marriage to a lack of sex and that’s when an open marriage came along. I posted this to give others like me a glimpse at understanding. So they wouldnt feel alone. Not for someone to hijack it and call me vile names. You are not a happy person but a hate filled person who is blinded by this feeling of superiority which does not exist. I hope you discover the true definition of happiness one day because I agree with a previous comment… you are in for a suck show of a life with this mindset.
I send the evil eye to all cheaters
I know exactly how you feel as im going through something similar. He makes me feel alive, wanted and loved. When he looks at me, or touches me, i want him and i know he wants me. He tells me all the time that he loves me, randomly, out of nowhere. I feel like i dont have to earn his love the way i do with the boyfriend while my boyfriend looks at me like im something to be pitied. I hate that. I don’t like to be pitied so i give him an attitude. Im a human being who needs love and affection and attention and my other guy knows and understands this whereas its soooo freakin hard to get anything from the bf. I love them both but i love my other guy more. A lot more.
Maybe you should be with the one you love more. I totally understand where you are coming from and you deserve happiness in all aspects of life. The thought of not having my husband makes me ill. I am so in love and so happy and if we could get the physical back on track we would be golden. I am a little jealous tho. I have taken a step back from other relationships to give my hubbs a chance to foster romance and intimacy. But I do miss feeling wanted. It gets old always initiating or begging for physical attention. I am glad you have some one who brings the light out of you. 🙂 you put a smile on my face.
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