i only selected this certain category for my confession because it is the truth.. the sad truth from what i’ve seen over and over again. ok simply, what the hell happened to loyalty? between families, friendships and specifically relationships. seriously in the close circle of my acquaintances i know 3 people who are in serious relationships yet they cheated on their partners. im not here to judge and analyze, let them get with 100 people everyday for all i care, but why hurt someone who doesnt know about it? just break up with your gf/bf and do whatever you want. i dont know why im getting so angry at this since it doesnt effect me directly, but maybe cause i got cheated on and lied to b4 and i know how much it hurts. and now i believe that you shouldn’t really trust anyone. i know i sound like a bitter angry person but i need to let it out somewhere..
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You’re right. You have so many different kinds of people with different prerogatives. As many cheaters and liers there are out there, there’s just as many honest and clear minded people. So just surround yourself with people that think like yourself. But also keep in mind that you cheated once and you learnt your lesson, so maybe you shouldn’t be too quick to judge and let them learn from their mistakes. I cheated more than once in 3 different relationships and I only do it when I’m put under extreme pressure and when i’ve decided that the relationship is over. (Very selfish, I know)
I’m not proud of it, but that’s how I am. I can try to change this but so far i’ve been finding it very hard.
Just keep in mind that everyone has their reasons and that cheating is probably not the worse thing that could happen in life, as bad as it is. (Don’t get me wrong, I’m against the concept of cheating, i agree with you that people should just be honest)
Either way, you know yourself and you know what you want, so surround yourself with people of the same characteristics. And since these people are family and friends that are close to you, you just need to advize them and then leave them to do what they want. In the end its not too good to interfere in people’s business’s. You’ll just get a lot of headache and pain. No use.
Lilith
I clearly stated that I NEVER cheated and never will. and no I have to disagree with you, There is no reason for cheating, it’s simply when the guy/girl want to act like douches and be selfish! whatever may cause someone to cheat, they should at least have the decency to tell their partner first and break up with them or whatever. Thanks anyway Lilith !