So, I’m texting this married man I met online today. Everything seems fine so far. He claims his wife is on psychiatric meds. Just like me. They have a son and he considered divorcing her but he wants to keep the family together. He cheated on her. I cheated on my partner, too (oral ꜱᴇx with my abusive ex on two occasions). Of course, our conversations will most likely fade over time and probably stop at some point. But I haven’t felt this way in a long time. I’m not supporting adultery — I myself would be devastated if my fiancé cheated on me. Although, he texts other women, too. This world is so sad.