I was born a woman and feel like a woman, but I wish I were a man for one reason – because then I wouldn’t have had my career impacted by s***** harassment. In my early 20s, when I was new to the working world, my boss harassed me, I reported him and suffered many direct and indirect consequences. Among other things, it made me an easy target for a female coworker, who acted rudely toward me and then basically said I couldn’t do anything about it because I’d already “had a conflict” (her words) with the harasser. Plus, he never completely stopped harassing me, he just became more subtle. As a result, I made some career moves I would never have made if I didn’t have to deal with this guy. I am now working in another company and it’s not bad, but sometimes I wonder where I would be if I were a guy.