I can always tell when someone is insecure about me in real life, usually without a reason to really be insecure. I’m just me and I am not that big of a deal. I like myself, I would not want to be anyone else but I really am not that big of a deal, I just know where to place my energy, effort and where/when to leave it. For dead sometimes. When I should and shouldn’t care.

Which is another thing men need to learn. You can’t be Mr. Nice Guy constantly. You should be able to say “Meh…” Keep walking and don’t look back. I don’t want to say treat em like s***, because you do need to know when, where and how with that too. It takes balance like anything else.

It usually baffles me because it’s completely out of nowhere. A passive aggressive comment, which doesn’t bother me but just makes me wonder why? What’s your issue? As if deep down, I don’t know exactly where and with who it’s rooted. I don’t care about THAT any more either. Maybe that’s the issue. I can take or leave anything and I never try (something else stated in that pathetic post the other day) and rarely do I care.

Maybe that’s part of your problem too. Don’t try so hard. May put the try on the correct track.

I also see familiar names posted on here lately which is hilarious in the context of the post. I can’t tell if it’s them or her, but the only the ng it does is make me laugh because either way, it’s insecurity directed at me. I know that and again, none of those names are me, and I would rather be me than them. Without a doubt. Anyone tied to those names is not someone I want in my life either. That’s distant past. I would rather have what I have. It makes me laugh because the posts are also ridiculous. Ludicrous.