Not to be Ok negative at a time like Christmas, but honestly, it’s just another day, it doesn’t mean anything to me, negative or positive. I don’t hate it, I’m indifferent to it. The. Est gift I could ever get would be to left alone at home. That includes no work either. For 4 days. Leave me alome to sit, or just do whatever I want, with zero obligation. I understand how some people see it different, but it’s just my point, not to get negative, but personally I don’t care, so yeah…
Getting that out of the way, and with that in mind, I just want to say something…one of the many things that bothers me about human behaviour is how clueless some people are (in real life) about where the lines for the boundaries are for me, without me saying it straight up. Like a woman, we are not friends, we work together at a place I have over a decade of experience with, I am seriously old school. Ponder history than a decade, but a deacdes worth of commitment. I have seen it all. Most people don’t realize it. Or they forget, because I don’t throw it around like a big shot. Unless they ask, once when we first meet. Seriously old school. I am not a fan of much of what it is now, there’s too many people crammed I to too tight of a space and anything I enjoyed, is now gone. For good. So alright. Whatever. That’s life, I try to adapt and I gotta say this girl, this young lady, rubs me the wrong way. She reminds me of a woman who I knew and am not fond of, never was and same of her to me. Which is also fine, I don’t need to ever see or think about her again, no grudge, never needing to see or speak again is absolutely great consolation. So there is that, loud, obnoxious, definitely not my idea of a lady I want anything to do with. I don’t like hee style, and I know she is not her, but just the fact that she is a twin, is more than enough. Looks, personality, tone of voice. Rubs me the wrong way.
Why ch is fine. We don’t need to converse or be pals, because of or roles, we barely need to see each other. Which is good, but she comes across as the type of person, who just can’t take a hint, and keep some distance. Like just don’t look at me, don’t think, don’t plan an approach, they get forward, and try to think of “team building” tactics not keep distance, and look at you sideways and wonder. If you are setting up a party, I really do not want anything’s ng to do with, you came over to me with a notepad, and asked me if I would be interested,.my response was a resounding “no”. You wrote it down, I am. Ot a social person, but more especially if I am not interested in that sort of “closeness” this is a job. ask anyone who ever called me