It’s a backwards way of thinking. It’s “the game of love” played wrong. For me, anyway.

I’m difficult too though. I don’t ever chase. It’s there, or it isn’t. I wash my hands and write it off as “too much of a g******* headache to deal with”

I’m not into fighting and arguing or drama. Many women need that kind of negative energy flowing at all times. It’s why some women get turned on by a smacking during s**. That’s messed up. I don’t get that. I see everything literally. Violence and S****** type s*** are not something I see as pleasure. Arguing, fighting. It’s a game, which I hate. I usually see it, and what pisses me off is they have the nerve to play these games and think I can’t see that they’re playing a game, which pisses me off more than the actual game.

I walk away from that. I’ve seen WAAAAAY too much of that at this point. I’ve had my fill 10 years ago.