Hahaha! Well personally, as a man who normally says hahaha instead the lol, I can’t think of any woman from my past who I would want to ‘bring down”. Are you trying to appear like you are me? If so, why? What’s your problem? I would not think or say what you did there.
Nope, I think two ways about people. Maybe they left me because we were toxic to each other and then kicked my a** while they walked away, possibly still loved me and had a hard time letting go even while they moved on, had kids and ignore me to hell breaking my heart while I gave everything inside me until I was drained for years. Completely drained and empty and eventually had to give up because they had moved on. So I wrote them off and walked on. No I’ll will, I believe their “punishment” is they need to live without me. They are doing fine, they are with some Leone for over a decade, started a family, career, they are fine without me. I can’t in good conscience interfere. I gave it everything I had though. EVERYTHING in me..
Then there’s those I disregarded and may have hurt at times, who moved on with their lives, did well, are doing well who I sure as hell don’t hold any hard feelings for. It’s all love and I don’t like myself for the ignorant jerk I was at times. It was and is my loss. She did the right thing and I hope they are happy.
Then there is also one or a few who I moved in some way during my pain, who learned my story more complete than I thought and they used it as inspiration. Which I don’t hold against either. I don’t like what appears malicious towards me, it actually scared me at times, but I don’t have any hard feelings. How could I? I touched them, they passed it on. It’s relatable. It moved others. I might seem like a jerk about some of it, but no hard feelings. Take it and run. I’m pretty sure it would touch my other half in the scenarios more than me. It’s cute and she did a good job capturing it. Her interpretation.
To be like what you imply is a waste of time. It isn’t hot or attractive. On the other hand, I am 😉
You might be loser, am think you are actually, take it from me though, to be hot, cool, attractive should be effortless. It is. It comes from inside. If it isn’t, you’re doing something wrong.
