How do you know they’re not avoiding because they really don’t want anything to do with you given the situation, your situation and they accept that fact that it’s just not something that can happen in their life? They can’t be happy around or with you? Is there a logical reason they are resigned? How do you know they haven’t always felt that way, that it would not work? Think about it. Think back to the start if you can. 2 weeks in. Did they really love you and want to be with you or did they ever have any doubt? They never at any time had any second thoughts early on about you and the relationship?
Most importantly, think about it, it’s not hard are they right to be resigned from you and the relationship? Is that the right thing to do? Is it the correct course of action given the situation?
From your perspective, if you are watching someone, and what they are doing, how they are living is hurting you, that doesn’t mean they are trying to hurt you, they’re just living their life and it’s hurting you to see it. Is it fake, or is it real? I’m sure you know if it is or isn’t fake.
Sounds to me like someone doing the right thing for them and it upsets you to see it.
Is there any logical reason they don’t want you or to be around you? Haven’t wanted to be around you? For how long? Maybe they are just being realistic and living their life, as thy should?
