I’d rather recognized what is not meant for me without pretending and accept it while only working on things that are meant for me. No pretending needed. You should never need to pretend anything. Get real. Pretending is a game children play.
That’s the way it goes. It is what it is. Accept it, really accept it, and take the energy you would be wasting on something that you know is not meant for you and use it on other things that will benefit you. It’s works. Trust me.
