My best friend and I argue with each other constantly over anything and everything, just the same as normal conversations. It can be playful bickering or it can be things that are serious, but everyone knows that if we aren’t arguing something is wrong. I want to argue with him constantly because he drives me up the f****** wall and I know that I definitely drive him up the wall. When we don’t argue we love and we love deeply, we talk about our days like they’re important to the other (and they are) and we talk about dreams like they’re shared. We yell at each other because I’m unhealthy, we yell at each other because he’s too pushy, we yell at each other because he dresses funny, we yell at each other because I sent a ridiculous meme, but we love each other infinitely. Every argument, serious or not, is ended with an “I love you” but every time an argument is shut down we don’t talk for a while. I’m not sure why it’s like this- it’s like we need arguing to keep ourselves in check. All I know is I’m so incredibly happy he argues with me and lets me fight back. I think I wouldn’t be who I am without him.
