so I guess that is just how cold people are that they don’t want to be part of your good times or bad, but they soak up everything for them, one of my relatives , she has 2 kids and a house and big house and huge pay pack jobs and never invited me once out, never hugs or smiles kindly, its all about her. oh she is sick or lost well, tough, she made me pay for something i didn’t do. and all her brother could say is “people asked how she was and we said no she is not ok” , well are any of us f****** ok? I was only in a car accident and abused and ignored for decades locked up in a dump, and I will remind you I didn’t personally win money, it was not my money or my house. people hated me so much they didn’t even want to share a family lottery win with me or stay at parents new house. they didn’t like my old house either. I wasn’t a sympathy s***. I have no degree or house, no children. no fancy job or fancy wedding in my youth or mid age or old age for that matter. sorry I had to think of my self and still couldn’t find a friend to care.