I completely agree with you. A man should NEVER take money from a woman. or have his hand out….to take take take. And i also 100% agree a woman should have her own life and a job of her own. There is nothing wrong with being the major breadwinner if you are a woman. But i think….a man needs to really…step up. And if a man is the breadwinner? a woman should never emasculate a man. She should also bring things to the table. Its not very feminist to say this. But I still believe a man should act like the provider of a home. To take control and charge. Be a MAN. I’m old school. I won’t apologize for that. I like being my own woman. I”m strong. Proud of it. But LOVE should NEVER be used in conjunction with MONEY or S**. I guess i had enough. I just reached my breaking point. I had enough.