It’s also too short to spend around people who stress you out, who you feel awkward being around.

No question… Never do anything to compromise your peace, unless it benefits you in some way. Sometimes it’s not a grudge. Distaste is distaste… It doesn’t matter that you care. It’s a 2 way street m.Iff they don’t, that’s all that matters… You cannot force someone to compromise their peace and Ballance, because you care. So what? What does that mean?