Having to deal with the fact that your own family doesn’t want you to succeed is very eye opening.My older sister is a single mother in medical school the guy who got her pregnant used her to get a green card and left her.She is doing it alone and is jealous that I don’t have that same experience.She has tried to conspire with my little brother to stop me from getting a job after I was fired from my last job after they essentially told me that they would give me a stellar review to any job that I went to.My little brother literally called my former employer and basically badmouthed me to them in the hopes that I wouldn’t get another job this not having employment and moving in with my sister and basically becoming a nanny.He has done this before with my other job literally the day after getting a raise he called and badmouthed me to my manager who out of sheer shock told me how odd she found it.Luckily I have found a job that pays well and doesn’t require me to do much honestly and the pay is good.My main issue is that now that I have decided to become a lawyer the jealousy is on 1000000.So now all I hear is “I thought you wanted to be a writer/actor” or “She’s only doing it because I want to be a doctor etc” and my thing is why do you care if I succeed??? I am realizing now that my spiritual advisor was 1000000% right about my family he told me when we first met in 2017 about my little brother and his behavior and the jealousy that would intensify in my family.He literally warned me years before it happened and I didn’t pay attention because I just didn’t believe it.Now I understand why when ever you succeed or try to do better for yourself jealous people will try whatever it is to stop you.I even went to help my sister watch my niece for a week and her attitude was sooooo disgusting that I left in the middle of the night.She was mad that I was getting hit on and getting attention and she wasn’t and all of a sudden she starts loudly asking me if I even eat. What I eat after my answering her questions multiple times.I now know that I have to succeed just to see the look on their faces, my family has tried so much to break me, they have believed complete strangers and lied about certain situations it’s just so sad how they act but I am ready to prove all of them wrong and I cannot wait for all the success that is coming my way in life.F*** YOUR JEALOUS FAMILY MEMBERS THEY CAN KISS YOUR A**.
