Last night I finally told my partner that I don’t like his 12 year old daughter. He thought I didn’t like her because he doesn’t like my 17 year old son, whom he kicked out to his dad’s house 3 years ago. I told him that no, I don’t like her because she isn’t a good person, she lies, steals, causes drama, makes nonstop noise at the TV, treats her brother poorly, uses my things without acting,and is disrespectful. His dislike of my son just gives me permission to feel the way I do without feeling guilty about it. I swear, if I didn’t have a 7 year old with him, and a 16 year old living with us that I’m trying to get through highschool, I would buy a rental in another city for every other weekend.