I value friendships a looooot. Like, I would never forget to text my friends a good morning. That was my daily routine. Until one day, I had to start living and wasnt able to text them anymore. Wont even bother to say hi on messenger. I thought even time will pass, things will still be the same.. That friends will always be friends. Actually it wont.. Especially when you start to live your own life. We all have to work hard and focus on ourselves.. Thats when I started losing them. I used to be bothered when one friend ignores my text or chat. That was too childish of me. For the past years, I’ve learned a lot about life and I started not to get bothered losing my trusted friends. I always wanted to have a bestfriend and I did… But I was betrayed. I thought it was real friendship but it wasnt. How can a guy ruin a friendship? Well actually, it wasnt an established friendship. Life becomes sadder when you meet bad people along the way. You’re lucky if you find a friendship that will not abandon you even in your lowest point but if you see red flags, I tell you, it wont work. It never will. When a friend changes or adjusts, you dont actually know them. A person’s character will remain as it is. One day they will find flocks where they belong and will be back to their old self.