Maybe that’s the problem? Too many guys in the wings?

Personally, as a man with experience, I never chase under any circumstances, but a woman with way to many suitors is nothing but a headache. I write her off immediately.

I always go for the one who really wants and needs it. Maybe I’m weird? I am now t competitive in certain things, love being one of them. In my experience that’s an up hill against the wind type thing. It’s usually hopeless. It’s why I don’t chase.

You either have it or you don’t. It’s there or it isn’t.