No contact works when trying to recover from a breakup. It’s empowering to feel control over someone that previously controlled me. He’s contacted me a several times, but only actually said words one time. I’m guessing things must be smoothed over for him. Things are going great for him, I suppose. They’re not for me. I dont have much, and cannot buy my acquaintances or romantic interests like him. There’s only one thing I’ve got control over now, and it’s my life. Who I let in it is up to me. Not him. I have been doing great in getting over him. As a matter of fact, I was getting over him great, until he began “accidentally” texting and messaging me. I don’t have anything to say to my ex. I will never speak to him again, ever. I go out of my way to completely avoid him, or any place that I could possibly run into him. He treated me like garbage, and screwed me over twice. He’ll never have that option again, as long as I live.