AND FTR, I have tried to get though to her to stay away from insecure guys who are or were connected to me in some way or at the very least do not speak of me to these people but she doesn’t listen to me. You would think she would know this or at least learn from the disasters. You are not the first.

If you asked me, my theory, because we have been really done for so long, I’m long done anyway, my theory is she needs some way to either keep in the loop with me, some kind of connection, any connection, because I don’t talk to her. I don’t have anything to do with her. It doesn’t matter to me who she is with. I don’t know why she has this deep seeded need to connect with me in some way, including a negative way like say for example, someone I work with, or an old friend. I’ve moved on.