I think if you approached ever person or situation in life like as if you and I never met and it never happened, things would be better for both of us. Thats what I do. You should try it

You will not find a happy relationship getting with some dirtbag simply because him an I work together. For the scoop, because you WILL NOT get it from me.

That relationship, while I am sure it was fun at times, will not last. It’s like starting a relationship off with a lie. Eventually, it’s going down. It’s not about them, it’s about me.

Unless it’s you being intentionally malicious towards me and my life. Your intent is to screw up my life in some way, which is a possibility.