In my experience, I believe the best way to end up in a relationship that will stand the test of time is to go out and find someone related to an ex who dumped you for reasons that in the end chalk up to you weren’t right for each other, you had nothing in common, it wasn’t an enjoyable experience, and the worse the relationship and how it ended, the better, find someone from their past who hated them and who they hated for whatever reasons and light a spark.
If you manage to get something going, it will probably be the relationship of a lifetime. I don’t know why there is not more written about this. It’s interesting. It only makes sense as long as everyone keeps in mind that it’s not about revenge, it’s about looking out for your own happiness.