Hey sorry about that earlier .

I guess my point was …it appears we have both traumatized each other (yes you too, and just as equally . No you are not a victim) and today got me thinking I guess. While I completely understand how you feel…and the desire to completely and permanently cut contact . We’re both doing that while clearing leaving unresolved s*** and more trauma behind . How many cheap shots and how much mud would you like to continue to throw ? How much do you think others want to hear the bitching ? I’m not saying this is at all what your dealing with , maybe you’re fine . But I am and if it is, I think it’s gone on long enough we should actually try to seek some resolution to it . Don’t get me wrong of course I’m still lonely and would love that person to call , or that bff to spill all the s*** about my day with … but I also know you may not (want) to be that person . I’d really like to believe they are out there somewhere tho , don’t you ? Maybe this is something that would help us both then possibly ?