I love you, and I know you care too in your own way…. but I can’t be a crisis management service anymore. You need me when you have burned your other bridges and have no one, then I’m dropped and devalued like a hot potato the minute you find someone else. I would literally give a kidney, I love you so much but for my own sanity I have to draw a boundary…I can’t be that void filler anymore. I want you in my life, I want to keep in touch but I can’t get involved with your issues anymore. Its like you miss you miss me so much, you beg for a phone call then the minute you find something anything ….basically a warm body to validate you I immediately have to screw off. If its possible to somehow just talk about normal things that would be great. You know I love you, and I don’t doubt you feel the same. I know you do and I love you for that.
