if your ex is waiting for you and doing things outside the relationship to show you effort and other stuff i think you should tell her because she cheated but i know the effort put it in because my boyfriend tried his best and it paid off and itll hurt. i think she knows it doesn’t get over the fact she cheated but it’s what she’s doin now that counts, when did u say she cheated? im gonna try my best to talk to him because it’s tiring and makes me upset but i think u should talk to her too especially if youre leaving and looking at someone else and she’s waiting months for u. she knows your worth it and if whatever she is doing in this lockdown thing is a lot of work then consider it, each person in this has feelings. my guy had feelings about it and i did too and it’s all about communicating with it like u said especially if ur in love with the person