well your advice is similar to hers but the difference is its coming from a different person than her. like hearing it come from her, I would think shes only saying that for her own benefit. I never really spoke to anyone about the issue because I hate talking about my relationships with people so thats why I did it anonymously but you are the first person to give that kind of advice and so thank you so much for that. she didnt get the money from me bc I asked her sister not to let her come outside because I didnt wanna see her, we had an argument yesterday about how she lies alott and I caught her in a lie but she didnt admit to it so im kind of mad atm w her. but your advice helped me keep an open mind to maybe seeing things different in the future when im in college or something