To J: I had to finally block every way of contact with my psychopath. I cried doing it because I cared so much for this person that hurt like hell realizing I had been simply duped and conned. Please I beg you do the same because people like this they do not care about you and once they get what they need they will be gone . The harassment got so bad Just psycho path even found my family two elderly people Into the state continues to harass them for money it got so bad they actually had to file a police report these people will stop at nothing they have no boundaries. Please give us an update how you are doing, There are people that care and many of us myself and Robert included wanna make sure that you are OK and safe God bless you and also thank you for your service to this country