So I decided that if I am lucky enough to actually carry this to term that I will tell the father, And give him a chance to be involved in the child’s life. Not my ex thank God this one seems like a decent fellow but there are no feelings there we just briefly dated… I don’t want or need child support, But if he wants to be involved in the kid’s life or contribute financially awesome. If not OK to I’m completely self-sufficient financially… I feel like that’s the right thing to do is much as I would like to be selfish . Since it is considered a high-risk pregnancy though I’m not saying a word until it actually comes to fruition. The last thing I want is to be pressured to have an abortion or get grief from my family that I am not married. F that it’s 2019 and if prince charming never comes LOL I’ve done everything myself my entire life this is yet another example.