I am one of those men who legitimately wants to undergo voluntary castration because I am completely sane but want the calm/freedom of no longer having incessant exhausting s***** urges/desires. Just because I (or many others like me) have never acted out in an abusive or criminal way, and never would do so or even want to, doesn’t mean we don’t want to shed ourselves of the distractions. Since it is impossible to find a medical professional who will either physically castrate or medically/chemically castrate, there are means to accomplish it in a way with risks that are acceptable to me, with assistance. For me, however, the only option for assistance consists of asking it of my ex wife. Part of me sees that as an utterly ridiculous and inappropriate thing to ask of her, and part of me knows that whether whether it were for sincere reasons or vengeful ones, she would do it.