I don’t know who needs to hear this, and it took me 20 years to figure this out, but you don’t owe anyone anything. You don’t owe anyone an explanation, the time of day, your heart, your freewill. Nothing. It took me so long to figure out that I am not responsible for no one’s happiness. If something does not get done, then it does not get done. YOU don’t have to do anything that you do not want to do. When you have spent all of your life trying to make everyone happy, you realize that when you’re not benefiting them, who’s going to make YOU happy? The answer is yourself, and if YOU are not at 100% then you shouldn’t be thinking of anyone else. Don’t look for someone else to make you happy, you can’t expect someone to give you the same treatment you give them.