I am a 31 year old lesbian artist. A couple of years ago, sort of in a girls loving girls theme I started painting watercolors of each girl’s vulvas and vaginas. The watercolors rely on artistic license but they are very realistic, as I used color photographs I had previously taken. After doing several couples I decided that quite frankly the whole subject matter was ugly. Closed vulvas are in many instances pretty, especially when they are nicely symmetrical, but heavy exposed labia are just gross.

So I stopped. In my opinion your partner’s v**** and v*****, her p****, should be in your imagination, in the shadows, the taste and smell and texture creating your very own mental image, yours and yours alone. I got crucified for my opinion, but those friends of mine who have now approached their girlfriend in the shadows, with all their senses found their special girl much more beautiful. I tossed my girl’s watercolor, shredded and gone forever, I want my baby to be mine, never shared, mine alone and that means no pictures, no renditions. In my mind she has the most beautiful p**** around.